While I in no way feel that I have Boston totally figured out, I am slowly starting to figure out what works for him and what has the highest chances of making him happy. I know that when he is upset that he likes to be held upright and over my shoulder. I know that he likes to wake up in the morning (6-8am) and have a morning chat. He gets quite upset if you try and put him back to bed at that time he wants to have his morning talk. He is very very verbal at this time and will babble on for up to 30 minutes. But once that time is done he is ready to go right back to bed, if you don't put him right back to bed you will miss that window of opportunity and you will have a screamer on your hands. I know that when he gets into a good long scream, the only thing that has a chance of breaking that scream is a squirt of mylecon. He loves the flavor and 9 times out of 10 he will start smacking on that and I can get the paci back in his mouth and he will calm down. But I also know that there are days and times where I could do anything I want nothing is going to calm him down.
Boston is starting to enjoy sucking on his fist. Hes been doing that for a little over a week and he just loves smacking on that thing.
While he does have bad times, I try to focus on the good times. His happy smiling moments. They are happening a little more often these days and I am looking forward to more of them!
You are a wonderful mom, but then I always knew you would be. No one could be a better mom to Boston than you are, be proud of yourself :)
ReplyDeleteTried sleep training him yet? He's old enough for it now. Going through it was awful, but the result is so worth it-for all of you! Denise
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